raw conversation about love (again) -.-"

m :

Give and take doesn't mean u have to expect something in return.

anisah shamilah :

but it's common kot, just like when u love someone, u want her/him to love u back.

anisah shamilah:

hate it so much when i seek from others more than i should~ yup, u said, "

love need trust, n Then if tak trust others,its never love,

when you love mean you put trust on,Then no worries,trust never let you down

Then if tak trust others,its never love. N you just lie to urself"

but.

anisah shamilah:

u wont easily trust others when u've the difficulties to trust even urself...lack of self-confidence.

anisah shamilah:

dat's why ppl tend to get jealous so easily, coz they lack in self-confidence.

anisah shamilah:

hurm..a muslim shouldn't have the lack of self-confident coz if she's a true believer, she know dat the only love that she should seek is ALLAH's love.

anisah shamilah:

n ALLAh give so many assurance dat whoever seeks HIS love, will get the love in return, dpt bertemu dlm keadaan redha dan diredhai

anisah shamilah:

n bila dia dah ada self-confidence tuh (coz somehow, knowing dat she loves ALLAH, n ALLAH will return it back, and ALLAH is always there watching her,protecting her) dat feeling will give her assurance n confidence

anisah shamilah:

bila dah self-confident,she can love whoever she wants n expect nothing in return...sbb cinta utama yg dia kejar adalah cinta ALLAH.

anisah shamilah:

so, xdela masalah jeles2 ke ape etc..

anisah shamilah:

huhu~

anisah shamilah:

so kalau ade mslh2 cmtu,kecik hati ke, jeles2 ke, mksudnye kna check blk la hbgn kita dgn ALLAH cmne kan? kita dah letakkan kecintaan kita pd ALLAH totally atau x.

anisah shamilah:

sbb tu hbgn kita dgn ALLAH akn reflek pd hbgn kita dgn manusia

anisah shamilah:

huhu~ tetibe terbuat kesimpulan lak.

sesi consultation di pagi hari, terima kasih miss consultant for helping me clearing my serabut mind. sorry to bother u pagi2. =)

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soalan dari miss teha,

kena tengok balik lah kan, kita berkawan dengan orang tu kerana apa. kalau betul kerana ALLAH, kenapa perlu ada perasaan tak best camtuh.? =)

tiba-tiba macam baru faham maksud kak aisyah,

bila ada paksi kita cinta ALLAH, kita boleh memberi dan menampung banyak sangat kasih-sayang sebab hati kita ni besar, tak semestinya perlukan amount yang spesifik.

theories are easy, the though one is how to apply it.

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kefahaman dalam 2kalimah syahadah akan membawa cinta yang total hanya pada ALLAH,

yang akhirnya melahirkan inqilab (perubahan2) dar 4 aspek

i'tiqadi (keyakinan)

fikri (fikiran)

syu'uri (perasaan)

suluki (perilaku)

maka lahirlah peribadi muslim yang berharga di sisi ALLAH.

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huhu~ kalau org cinta ALLAH, mesti tak banyak kes suicidal and homicide yg horror2 mcm dalam forensic skang.~

n.b. cara2 bunuh diri:-

cut throat is usually done by men.

women? they just burn themselves to death.